Ok, finally spoke to my Dad about Ah Lau's status and so on and so forth. My Dad teared and I cried buckets to my Da Sao's silence, my bro's helplessness and my Mum's talking to which I think none of us were listening to.
I guess it is inevitable that I have to break the news to my Dad (I didn't expect him to cry), but I know that deep down, whilst he really is not totally at ease with my choice of husband, I know he will still give me his blessings and I am determined to make sure Ah Lau steps up to it.
Just now, Ah Lau and I were calculating our budget for the wedding and I am so glad that my family offered to help. I know his family would too if they could. I find myself often getting mad at having to share certain things and argue about money with him until I read Tony Parson's Catching the Sun. He said that one does no stop loving someone because of money and I guess somewhere along our journey into our impending marriage, I had forgotten about it.
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